Life thoughts

Hi, everyone! Today post is going to be about my thoughts about life. Recently, I had a really deep conversation with my friend and we were discussing about how people around us were like. As I am from business school in poly, I meet a lot of people with different kinds of personality. Some are genuine, nice and real while some are fake and have 2 sides to them. Some people are naturally pretty and popular with thousands of followers on instagram. Sometimes I do envy them but at the end of the day, let me ask you: does popular equate to happy? One of my friends is popular with 1203 followers but she told me she was actually not happy, instead she suffered from depression. She did not have many close friends. It was all an act. On the outside, she may be the popular type but on the inside, she suffered a lot of stuff which most people actually didn't know about it. I feel that everyone has an inner story to tell..followers on instagram doesn't mean anything..as long as you have close friends who really care about you stay with you, you are happy. Yes, she may be pretty but does looks really matter much? Looks is temporary but what really captures you and really want to hang out with that person is her personality and her heart. No matter how pretty she looks, if her personality is bad, I wont even want to hang out with her. Hence, having a nice and real personality is the best.

Second thing is straightforward. My friend is straightforward and there is good and bad thing to it. Good thing is as she is my close friend, I like this attitude. I will know what is on her mind and there is no hiding. But the bad thing is to the others who don't know her, they may not like the way she thinks and some of her words may hurt others even when she does not mean it that way. Straightforward may end up hurting someone..hence, I feel that sometimes when we say things, we need to know what to say and say it in a correct way..something like sugarcoat it.

Third thing is judgement. I know nowadays, many people may tend to judge others a lot. Not that im saying judgment is bad, but I feel that everyone is different..we are all born with different kind of faces. Some pretty, some average, some even below. But deep down in my heart, I feel that everyone is unique in their own ways. Not everyone is born naturally pretty, but what matters most is personality. You cant judge a person by his or her looks and form judgement about that person. You need to know that person long enough to really know what she or he is like.

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Have a great day and smile always. Life is full of fun and surprises. Don't spend time dwelling on the past or sad things that happen. Look forward to the fun times ahead. :)