Hi, everyone! Another post today! Today post will be about having guys as friends. I know many of you have a lot of friends around you but do you know which friend is true to you? Imagine if you are alone needing help, who will be there for you? Imagine if you feel helpless, does any of your friends actually comes over and comfort you, giving you word of advice?
I have been in poly for almost 2 years and I learnt many things. Having girls as friends is good but I realized not all girls are nice. They may look nice on the surface but they may talk something bad behind your back without you even knowing. You trusted them but they spread around. This is why sometimes I feel that having guys as friends is better. They make you feel better and happier by saying jokes and even keeping your secrets without telling anyone.
Guys are genuine and nice. I used to have nightmare about guys when I was young but nowadays, I find that I can actually confide in guys better than girls. They are willing to lend a ear and listen to all your insecurities. Don't be afraid of people judging you if you hang out with guys. For me, its pretty normal to hang out with someone you are comfortable with.
Last Friday, I went out with my guy friend alone and we hang out. I can say even though it wasn't anything special but we talked a lot and I felt really comfortable. We ended up sharing many insecurities and unglam photos. Its really nice talking to a guy even though I may get shy around guys. He is one of the truest friend I have ever met and I would want to hang out with him again.
Who says a guy and a girl cannot hang out? Who says it will turn into a relationship? Just be comfortable and happy, that's the most important.
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