How to handle stress

Lots of teenagers are facing stress from their studies and the high expectations from their parents everyday.This results in depression and makes them lose interest in their studies.Nowadays,it become a serious case that needs to be taken it seriously.Recently,one guy received his o level results and became depressed that he died.I think studies is important but learning how to study the correct way is effective to conquer stress faced by many teenagers.

 1.When you are feeling stressed out,listen to soothing or pop music which will calm your nerves and makes you feel better.(Choose music which suits you the best)

2.Talk to someone e.g.:your parents,your siblings or your friends.Talking defintely helps a lot as these will help to lighten your burdens.Listening to people advice and heeding it make everything feel better and the stress that you are facing will disappear soon.

3.If you are a dancer,dance it out.These helps to lessen your stress and take all the fears and worries away.

4.Take up a sport which suits you the best.Whatever stress you have,let it out.

5.Draw a timetable and arrange your time accordingly.This will make you feel more prepared and have more time to relax.

6.Go out with your friends to play.Friends will understand you the best!

7.If you like to write,write it in a diary.Writing helps a lot and makes you understand your stress better.

8.If you like to eat,eat when you are feeling stressed.I am one of this people.

Handling stress is important for all teenagers.Having the time to focus on your studies and relax make your life easier and happy.Face life with happiness and be cheerful.Dont give up on your studies,study hard and do well! Learn to relax at the right time too!



At the end of the day,you will get good results and be happy too.

Inner Beauty

In today society,most people judge someone based on their looks.To me,inner beauty matters.A person with exterior beauty doesnt equate to having inner beauty.Inner beauty means someone who treats others with respect,helps others in need and is kind to many people.Every morning,when teenage girls look at themselves in the mirror,they always see their imperfections and scare the world might see the flaws they see.But should it really matter?The answer is NO.Everyone has their own unique beauty and flaws.Once in an interview,a model told the interviewer that she did not think herself as perfect and beautiful.Even if you are a model,you will still find imperfections everywhere.This is hard to control as we will find things which make us imperfect.But,the truth is we are PERFECT.Everyone has a good heart,regardless of how bad the person is and helps others in need which makes us PERFECT.I focus more on inner beauty when i choose friends.Being different from others is a good thing as this makes us unique and special.



If you want to be beautiful,JUST SMILE.

(LOOK MORE AT YOUR IMPERFECTIONS)
MAKES YOU INTERESTING
(YOU ARE YOU,JUST BE YOUSELF)
(THE MEANING OF INNER BEAUTY)
Inner beauty outshines outer beauty which makes the whole person beautiful and special.Once you have accepted your flaws,no one can use against you.Im not saying this out of optimism but this is a true fact.If you are being bullied,stand up for yourself and tell others you are not.


Be STRONG and stand up for yourself.
A song by conne talbort which is called inner beauty inspired me:

The morning starts like any other
I find myself in front of the mirror
Picking out my imperfections
Scared the world might see the flaws I see

But should it really matter?
Why does it mean so much to me?
I wish I could believe in inner beauty

I don't wanna be looked at
If you can't see past all of my pretty lies
There's more to this picture if you look deeper
You will find me behind these eyes
I'm right here
Behind these eyes

Every lyrics has its own meaning and is deep.Go check out her song.Keep in your mind that everyone is beautiful.

Friends

Since now is a holiday for me,I shall start blogging more often.Last few years,i faced with clique

struggles..fights..quarrels..ignorance..too many to comprehend.Im sure lots of teenage girls are facing the same thing as me..I had this friend who was quite close to me and she was like my second best friend...but guess what:she insulted me and called me lots of foul words..she accused me of things i didnt do and these left me feeling so sad and hurt by her actions.In my mind,i thought she is someone i can rely and talk to..i felt kind of cheated and betrayed.I have faced with people teasing me and calling me lots of insults.At one part of my life,I lost hope and cried..i gave up my studies and spent my time reflecting this friendship...Those days were darkness to me and part of my life was filled with misery and sorrow.

In secondary school life,there are good and bad memories.Good memories:i have a few friends who are good to me and treat me nicely.These are the ones that i can talk to when i am down.However,there is One particularly best friend who i speak to when i am sad and share the same dream and interest as me(you know who you are since you are reading this).Recently,we went out and played guitar while singing songs.To me(honestly),She is  the bestest friend that i have in my life and i cherish the moments we had together.She never fail to make me laugh and makes me feel comfortable.She understands deeply in my soul and i am never feeling awkward around her.She is the best thing i ever have in my life.Lets YOLO once!

I know life is always tough and challenging.For all the teenage girls out there,you should face life positively and not break down and cry when things get tough like me.Stay strong! A song called Stronger by Kelly Clarkson inspired me a lot.It goes like this;

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

You will find one true best friend that knows you the best.

Holidays:Enjoying life

One of the famous ice cream restaurant in Singapore is Udders'ice cream.I went there a few days ago and guess what:the ice cream and waffle taste like heaven to me.

(pictures from internet)

It was delicious and not too sweet.The waffle sold there was cripsy and soft which made the whole waffle and ice cream mouth watering to me.I never regretted going there and promised to go there again.It was not a wasted trip for me but a fruitful experience to go there.One of the best,i can say.It is definitely worth the money and the taste of the ice cream is different from other ice cream selling in the conveniece store.

New beginnings and life

Recently,i received my o level results and i was so shocked in the sense that i couldnt believe i received this kind of results.I was so sad for the whole entire four days and could not talk to anyone about it.Sad day for me.The worst thing was i could not enter my dream course accountacy..worst feeling for me.I cried and dried my tears and reflected...been a long day for me that past few days.I looked through the jae booklet and  the courses.For me,I wanted to go into Singapore Polytechnic and studied accountacy but sadly i couldnt get in.For now,I was so happy as I was posted to Singapore Polytechnic and studying financial informatics.I heard from my Dad that the course was lively and better than accountacy.This is what my dream course is! Kind of happy now...


This quote means a lot to me,even if there is darkness everywhere,there is still a place full of sunshine waiting for me to go...totally inspire me a lot..
However,2015 is going to be a new beginning for me...going into Singapore Polytechnic and studying the course is going to be different for me as i can get to know more people and friends from different schools and focus on business course.


I learnt that i should keep smiling and be cheerful and face life with a positive attitude.Nothing can break me down.I am glad to know that I have a place in Singapore Polytechnic and is one of the business course.There is always a way out in life...In this year,I hope to achieve good academic studies and be a cheerful person and be successful in everything i do.

Singing and musical instruments(DREAMS)

I love guitar and piano.They are what i called precious in my life and i cherish it every single day.Since young,singing and playing musical instruments have been my passion..I appreciate different kinds of music and learn to express feelings and thoughts through singing and playing musical instruments.Actually,one of my dreams is to become a singer(not to deny),but many friends around me laugh at me and say you are so unrealistic.I learnt to not care about what others think of me and pursue in this passion.Even if there is any 1 percent chance,i will grab the chance and do it well.Every time i close my eyes when i am singing,i always imagine myself standing on stage and sing in front of my audience while playing guitar or piano.





Singing and playing musical instruments are something i cant live without in everyday life.When you ask me to choose between phone and that,i will choose music.Haha..Sometimes when i am sad,singing comes in place and brings all the pain and sadness away.I will tend to forget I am in this world and sing.Sometimes i imagine myself in another dimension(not to deny too).This is kinda weird but this is what i feel.Nothing can take my music away.Even if people discourage me to do that,i will always stood up for my decision and make singing as my first choice.



If you have any dreams,GO FOR IT! BE Happy! :)

Fashion

Besides music,fashion is the next thing that I like.I love to wear different types of clothing as it brings out your personality and your personal style.Most of all,looking pretty too.Fashion is about dressing up to make you feel confident and proud of yourself.When you walk along the streets,you will often see teenagers wearing fashionable clothes,for example,t-shirts and skirts with a pair of converse shoes or a dress with a pair of black boots.Fashion is so common in today's society and even till now,there are still more trends of fashion coming up.These are some of the fashionable clothing:

(converse shoes)

I love all these styles of dressing as it expresses different personalities and moods that i am feeling.I like to express feelings and emotions through fashion.When i am sad,i wear t shirts and jeans with converse shoes but when i am happy or feeling hyper,i wear a crop tee and a skirt with a jacket and a pair of black or brown boots.I enjoy fashion a lot maybe these last three years..i have grown to love different types of clothing.But one of my idol who always dresses up fashionably and looking pretty is Camila.Gonna show her clothing now:

Fashionable clothes doesnt have to be too extreme,just dress in your most comfortable clothing and shoes and you are ready to face the new day.Another idol that i love is Cassidy.Gonna show her clothing:

Camila and Cassidy's clothing are different.Camila dressing is more hair bow and skirts but Cassidy dressing is more like boots and shorts.Different people have different ways of dressing but what is more important is knowing how to dress and dressing up to make you feel confident and proud of yourself.That all about fashion...:)

Passion in my life

Since young,music has become an integral part of my life.It relieves stress,makes you feel happy and take away all the bad memories in the past.Some people say pain and sadness heal over time but to me,these are just optimism words.Last few years,school was horrible to me but music made me feel better in the sense that struggles and hurt are just part of my life and i have to put down everything and move on with my life.Recently,i heard a song by demi lovato and olly murs  and the song name is up.And it goes like this:

           I never meant to break your heart

I won't let this plane go down
I never meant to make you cry
I'll do what it takes to make this fly, oh
You gotta hold on
Hold on to what you're feeling
That feeling is the best thing
The best thing, alright
I'm gonna place my bet on us
I know this love is heading in the same direction
That's up

        

This song definitely speaks to my soul and i love it.(been listening to it for like 10 times a day..hahah)

In school,i had been teased by many people and faced with all types of struggles(friends).One time,I was so sad that my friend ignored me for the whole day and I couldnt get over it.I carried sorrow and pain in my heart and i tried to run about a few rounds but nothing could take away the hurt and sadness,only music helps.To most people,music is just music..but to me,it meant the most important part of my life.Music really does that to me and reminisece all the good and bad memories.Thats all about it..a little intro to how music does to me.